
Happy Valentine’s Day!
One of the most enduring myths regarding the Puritans of 17th century New England is that they were asexual both in and out of marriage.
The confusion stems from their religious beliefs and doctrines regarding sexuality. Within marriage, sex was highly encouraged as a means of procreation, and also as a desirable intimate bond between husband and wife. In fact, refusal to have relations with one’s spouse was grounds for censure and divorce.
It is true that the Puritans had laws against sexual relations outside of marriage, adultery, and homosexual relations, and public displays of affection were frowned upon and often fined. However, behind closed doors, the Puritans enjoyed many, if not all, of the same pleasures people enjoy today, including those that were against the law. For more info, see this short article from Boston Magazine; https://www.bostonmagazine.com/arts-entertainment/2016/10/18/puritans-and-sex-myth/
In my upcoming historical fiction novel, Hatfield 1677, my main characters Martha and Benjamin Waite, a married Puritan couple, are separated by circumstances beyond their control for most of the book. As an author, I relied upon writing scenes before their separation and after their reunion to show the depth of their love, as well as their memories, thoughts, and longings for each other during their time apart.
I hope you enjoy their love story.
2 responses to “Romance in Hatfield 1677”
While I am past my sexual dimension with Bernie, I do remember vividly the serious flirting we did initially and her clothes from early on—turquoise hot pants and two jumpsuits in particular—that accentuated her shapeliness. But her soul and spirit still sustain and inspire me. ________________________________
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Valentine’s day is bittersweet for those such as you and me, who have lost our beloved spouses. And yes, their soul and spirit live on.
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